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On January 27, 2026, Frank passed away peacefully surrounded by family. Frank is predeceased by his wife Deborah Incardona; parents Frank & Antoinette Incardona; sister Dolores Latoy; and brother Donald Incardona.
He is survived by his children Kathleen (Joel) DiMartino, Jennifer (Jeffery) Blanchard and Frank (Elizabeth) Incardona III; grandchildren Franco, Stella, Cecilia, Jackson, and Frank; siblings Maryann Pallifrone, Joyce Rhoda and Alan Incardona; many nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends.
Frank was born in Rochester and graduated from East Ridge High School. He served in the Army reserves after high school. Following his year in the service, he began his career as a truck driver, which he enjoyed for over 30 years. In addition to his career as a truck driver, he pursued his passion of residential painting which began as a young man working with his father and continued through his retirement.
Frank was the type of man who put other people's needs before his own. If someone needed help, he was always there. He had a great deal of pride in being someone who could be depended upon for anything.
Nothing was more important to him than his family. He married the love of his life in 1972 and enjoyed each other's companionship for over 50 years. He was a loving, supportive, proud father, and grandfather. His family meant the world to him, and he made sure the world knew it. His children and their families will miss him dearly.
Friends and Family are welcome to call Sunday, February 1, 2026, from 3PM-5PM at James R. Gray Funeral Home, 1530 Buffalo Road. Funeral Service will be held Monday, February 2, 2026, at 1PM at Gates Presbyterian Church. Entombment to follow in White Haven Memorial Park.
Kindly consider making donations to Mt. Carmel House Hospice in Frank's memory.